Singing talent: touches hearts of many


I was writing my essay for an hour and I needed something to distract me and I stumbled upon this video. My first thought was,”This is a funny video, Im in it for a good laugh”. Plan was to watch it, get a good laugh then continue on writing my essay.

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The moment I heard his voice, I was like,”OMG this guy can really sing”.

I was in complete awe the whole entire time I was watching it. I was moved by the song. I wasn’t expecting him to be such a good singer. It completely caught me off guard. I’m really glad I watched it.

It really gave me some inspiration. I hope you did too.

Relationship 101: who controls your relationship?


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The person who cares the least, Controls the relationship.

We all thought about this situation and we have it at the back of our minds, but we don’t talk about it. It is not something that couples talk about. You may be doing it already, you just haven’t realized it. It might also be working out to your advantage, but not all people have the same way of thinking. It also can be a complete disaster movie. (This only applies to serious relationships)

What I’m saying is, people react differently. Some might be OK with it and some might be completely offended by it. Some relationships are unconsciously doing it, and it might be working out for them.

My theory is that, successful couples has the right amount of care between the both of them, which created balance in their universe.

In my opinion, it doesn’t need to be equal, you just have to analyze your situation and figure out what works out for the both of you. I mean, Its really just finding the right combinations.

Now to answer the question, Yes its true and will continue to be. Its not always a bad thing, again if it works for your relationship and it creates balance, then it must be doing something right.

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Now, it doesn’t mean you don’t care at all, that’s different. It just means that you’re opening up some space for your partner to fill up. It sometimes the other way around, your partner may have some space for you to fill up. Key is don’t go over that limit, Just fill up whatever needs to be filled and stay within it. Some people tend to be overwhelming and most of the time their partners feel that they are obligated to match it. They will feel pressured and sometimes confused, which can lead to a breakup.

You may agree or disagree with this point of view. Keep in mind that this is just the technical side of things. Relationships are complicated that way. There are a lot of areas to be covered when it comes to this. Its just really a matter of perspective. We all think differently in different situations. This is just for those people who needs an answer to, “why things are the way they are?”. I hope to have covered that area.

Here we go again, Polar Vortex


DSC_0430Winter season is here. Oh, what a wonderful thing.

That is what most people think, but if you’re living north of the border, it may not be as pleasant.

Last year was the worst winter I have ever experienced. There’s a southward shift of the Polar Vortex. I know it sounds like it came from a movie, but its true. The event stretched from December 2013 to April 2014. Recorded temperature on Christmas day was -41 degrees Celsius. It was as cold as you know what. Local news reported, “Its colder than the surface temperature on Mars”. Its an OMG situation whenever I step out of the house. I mean, bare skin can’t last 2 mins exposed. You’ll have to be all covered up to survive the brutal wind chill. I used to like Winter season, but after that Polar Vortex situation, my mind shifted from “favourite season ever” to “not so much, please take me to anywhere warm”. Its a Love Hate situation. DSC_0378

Enough with all the negatives. Winter season also has its good side. first of all, It cleans the air we breathe, that’s the most important thing.

Think of it as a refresher, after all that partying last summer, it is time to cool down. Its like our air is sobering up from all the toxic waste we humans release in the air. Secondly, I can finally, show off my Canada Goose Jacket again. Its jacket season, its time to show off your fancy winter clothes.

Well like it or not, Winter is coming and there’s nothing we can do to stop it. Let’s just hope that its not as bad as last year.


Life experiences predicts the future


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Think of yourself as an empty box, and every time you experience something, you add it into that box.

That’s how life works. Our personality today is the collection of the experiences generated through the years that we’ve been here.

Those experiences are available to us whenever we need to make a decision in life. Through past experiences, we can assess the situation and make the right decisions based upon the experiences you’ve gained in the past.

(Now if you’ve never had experienced anything like it before, I would suggest that you learn from others who have, do not make a decision on your own).

This rule applies to anything in life, whether be work related, family, or relationships. It is best to be absolutely sure than learn it the hard way.

Employers tend to lean towards candidates that has vast amounts of experience in the field, versus a candidate who is fresh out of Stanford with academic achievements. I mean its an obvious choice, (and again that choice is based upon the employers own experience or knowledge gained from other sources).

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Theory learned in school doesn’t always translate well into practice. Its a no brainer for most of us, but how would you explain it?. Its simple,

“the candidate with a lot of experience was exposed to a significant number of decision making scenarios in the past”.

which ultimately brings us to experienced gained, and more experience means that if ever presented with the same scenario in the future, you are more likely to make the right decision..

Relationships also require smart decision making. It only differs from the amount of factors that comes into play when talking about relationships. But the decision making itself requires experience.

When it comes to relationships, we tend to shut off the rest of the world.

When I was growing up, I never listened to anyone but myself, I wanted to make my own decisions. I was stubborn, I had to learn the hard way.

There was never a short cut when it comes to relationships, its just complicated that way. But through all those experiences, I have learned that to do the right things and say the right things are the foundations of a strong relationship. That is were experience come into play. You may have said the wrong things before, but you can use that knowledge in the future, so that you don’t make the same mistakes.

There are two kinds of people, There are people who make mistakes and correct them along the way, and there are people who are well equipped with knowledge from other peoples past experiences and try to learn from it before it happens. I’d like to think that I am the well equipped kind of person

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It’s true, and it goes with the quote, “History repeats itself”, and sometimes it does. That is why Do’s and Don’ts came along, That information is based on other peoples life experiences and they have worked in the past. It is best to be aware than go about it blindfolded.

As we we’re growing up, we develop our knowledge through everyday experiences. Our personality was built from It and moulded us into what we are today.

Left-Handers in a Right-Handers world


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There are only ten percent of left-handers in the world.

They wake up every morning, in a world built for right-handers.

It is quite the challenge.

There are simple things that right-handers take for granted, from scissors to guitars to cellphones, these are difficult to manage when you are left-handed.

Being left-handed seem cool, it is something that sets you apart from others. It may not be a bad thing, here are some facts: Studies in US, UK and Australia

Left-handers’ brains are structured differently from right-handers’ in ways that can allow them to process language, spatial relations and emotions in more diverse and potentially creative ways. Also, a slightly larger number of left-handers than right-handers are especially gifted in music and math. A study of musicians in professional orchestras found a significantly greater proportion of talented left-handers, even among those who played instruments that seem designed for right-handers, such as violins. Similarly, studies of adolescents who took tests to assess mathematical giftedness found many more left-handers in the population.

For all of the Left-handers out there, just so you know, August 13th is left-handers day. Belated happy left-handers to you all left-handers.

Cocoa Farmers Tasted Chocolate For The First Time


Take a moment to reflect on the issue presented in the video.

These people harvest cocoa for a living, and yet they never tasted chocolate. Its ironic, they have been harvesting cocoa for generations, but they couldn’t buy a bar of chocolate.

This video made me think of the things that I normally take for granted.

We are so used to living a lavish life that we completely ignore these facts.

Keep in mind that there are people that would do anything to have what you have, while you waste away your life.

The only thing I’m saying is that, We are blessed to have a family, to have a roof over our heads, and to be able to do the things that we love and more.

Have a sense of awareness and be grateful for what you have.